Garie Beach - *Men only* can u share with me 5 reasons why you're happy/successful? What's your motivation?

Men only can u share with me 5 reasons why you're happy/successful? What's your motivation?

I think women generally stagger in life because of all those moods and pressure in their lives, so men are much more driven to succeed. I'm gonna be 21 on Apr 30... and so far I'd have to admit for the last 4 years of my life, having a great man (aerospace engineer!) in my life, I never felt more focused with my priorities til I started "thinking" like a man. (I'm still a great girl with an awesome figure :) Ever since I've been starting to think more objectively, I've been earning 6 digits annually, I now drive a new C6 Corvette, and I can visit Daytona Beach (from VA) anytime I please. Very sweet indeed, and I have to thank ALL manly classic-rocking men for it.

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1) I realize that things can only happen to me if I allow them to 2) I place love, compassion, and understanding in higher priority than anything else 3)I realize the big picture first and foremost and do everything on purpose, rather than on outcome 4)I always know I will succeed, because failure only comes to those who give up 5)I always do what I do because I want to and it makes me feel good, rather than doing things because they're standard procedure As far as success goes, I believe everyone can be successful in their own manner. Success isn't a mannerism adopted only by totalitarian-thinking males; I believe Success is what happens to a person when they're truly where they want to be at in life. And that can come with or without money, with or without material objects, or even with or without direct spirituality in some cases. To me, the only requirements are that you know what it is you're wanting and that you're willing to do anything within your integrity to get them. Other than that, the path is basically forked in infinite manners. If someone wants to be success as far as life and social career aspects go, I'd advise them to Be Thorough, and put quality into whatever they're doing, people often say this as "work hard" but that's just one path to true quality. It makes sense that if one puts in more work they'll get more effort, but there is more than one way to do everything. The important thing is that the outcome is the one desired. After being thorough, make sure you're doing it for you. You're the first and last step to your own progress. Your life should be your own sculpting of you into your own perfect form. Material things come and go, so do friends, family, and people. As long as you're alive, you'll be there, so it's best that the you that's there is the best you that you could be. Not only that, but this only makes it easier for one to go out and fulfill their purpose. After you're sure that you're all that matters to be progressed in that sense, It's important never to compromise on your integrity as you go about getting a proper group together that shares the same values as you do. I'm the type of person that knows about manifestations through thought so it's never hard for me to do anything in this life that I can imagine or feel vividly, for a long enough period of time. Look into "the law of attraction" if it interests you. It's the same thing as karma, explained differently. Moreso than these, it's important to be confident and direct when it comes to matters of which you're going to be aspiring to, and this is true even if one is a humorous person. I'd look for a friend in a high location in whatever business to help me, sort of as a mentor, with much appreciation and compliments obliged. I'd bend over backwards for whatever they suggested I do as long as I knew that the outcome was going to open doors to that which I wanted. If I couldn't find one, which I would imagine I would be able to, then I'd take the harder route of cold calling people in whatever field or interest I aspired to in order to help me for however much monetary cost it took. Then I'd get the doors open that way. If I didn't have the money, I'd find it. Because I know if I advance confidently in the direction of my dreams without even a wince of failure's possibility, there's no way failure is possible. All things start and end in the mind, so if you really have it in your mind for this life to be a complete dream for you, it can be. Let me tell you how my value system works. First it's how I feel about something, firstand foremost. Nothing matters if I'm not happy. Then It's spirituality, because when I know my purpose I can do what I need to on purpose and everything always seems to work in my favour, because I know my purpose is really to serve humanity in some way. We can't take anything with us when we die, so all I can do is give. Egotistically people tend to act on "outcome" meaning whatever money or success or fame they'll get. Ego in this sense is the fastest way to failure. But if you do your actions on "purpose" on serving humanity, on being thorough and putting quality in your work, simply because that's your love. Then you'll be selling love, and people love to buy love, but they hate to buy cheap merchandise for someone looking to make a quick dollar. Do what you do because you love to do it and you want to use it to share with the world for whatever good reason or purpose you have. I've heard it said once that in genesis, they state that god made the heaven and earth, and all that he made was good. So if you want to feel god, feel good. If you're feeling good about something, Serving humanity is a divine purpose, and thus you feel good because you're feeling god. Egotistical pursuits base from fear of lack and to be seen as something high and mighty when we're all equal in nearly every sense of the world. To be egotistical is just to fool yourself, because that's not what really is, naturally everything that has ego as a foundation will fall away. But being on purpose lasts forever, beyond the grave because people will remember someone who has given so dearly. It's why we've all heard of Mother Teresa. Not only this but the universe creates everything from a source unseen to us. This source is infinite evidently because the universe is. Thus in an infinite universe, lack is nonexistant. For the universe is infinitely abundant. It only creates. It can't non-create. Once it's created it's created. Lack isn't a creation it's perception that things are not created which is nonsense because the universe is infinite. Tell me what created matter. What creates the planets. The sun. Tell me what created everything. God, right? God being an ambiguous term for the source of all things, not necessarily a force outside of us but the origin of all things that exists within everything, including nothing. This "source" is an energy. All things at their root, says quantum physics, are energy. Thus this source, god, is energy. And what are the rules about energy? It can never be created or destroyed only moved about. Thoughts have energy, you can measure their wavelengths in fact. Manifestation is the movement of energy using thought. As stated, all things are thought for it is a perspective world. You can only see through your own eyes, forevermore. I have yet to see a person disconnect from their own body and experience and see from an objective or universal point of view. Thus, for all practical purposes, this very well could be just a very large, real feeling dream. Manifestation isn't difficult. It simply needs alignment of thought or energy or the feeling and knowing that what you want is real now. Now is the only time that is prevalent is manifestation because past and future are illusory. Simply ideas created by the human language to describe different points of "now". So if you want to experience something you must experience it in a sense of now. Using thought you can manifest whatever it is that you want. I'm sure you've had the experience of thinking something and then having that thought become real at some point in time afterwards. Thinking of a person, and then having them call on the telephone or seeing them later on that week. Manifestations happen all the time, but it's only when someone does it consciously that it actually astounds. Using your thought to move the energy, you can manifest what you wish to have. Whether it be thought, experience, situation, or object. Energy is what makes up the universe. There is way more energy in the universe than the whole earth could ever consume ever. Let me put this into practical purposes in terms of manifestations and you. You're one human. And the universe is something ridiculously large. Let's compare it to the ocean. Your needs and desires, are like a lifetime supply of water. Let's say you have a filter so that you can drink it and the filter will never run out or break. There's way more water in the ocean than you or the whole world could drink in all of our entire lifetimes not only because there is way more water than people but because it's a cycle. Manifestation is the same way. Energy cannot be created or destroyed only moved around, it's a cycle. So you can have everything you dream of, even if it seems like a lot to you, to the universe it's nothing. It'd be like you taking out a enough water to fill an entire state. The ocean wouldn't care there'd still be way more than enough a few times over. A billion dollars for all practical purposes is not a lot of money. Bill Gates has that 52 times over. So really it's not about whether or not it's capable or possible because it's all thought in which we create our worlds. You can judge that on what's already there, what's physical and manifested, or you can judge that on how you want things to be and how you know the manifestation process works and you can apply that to the way things already are manifested and you can use that to create anything you want for yourself. I'll gladly respond to any emails on areas of manifestation, spirituality, success, and other faculties of human existance and happiness.
Driven, is just part of it! Being competitive and having a job that you love doing will put the puzzle together.
1) I'm me, there's nobody else I'd rather be. 2) If I want something, I go get it. 3) I can out-think just about anyone, the thought of that always brightens my day. 4) Good computer games make happy. 5) All of the people around me, my friends and family.
You seem very smart and "together". Let me suggest that what you are wanting to know it masculine as opposed to more distinctly feminine outlook. Since the United States' thinkers are both collectivistic and anti-feminine, your perception seems justified. What makes me happy--and a most successful mind indeed compared to others--are ideas available to everyone, male or female. In no order: 1. Safety--freedom from primary worry about physical well-being, money worries, injustice, crime and the destruction of my property. In this country, that's harder for females to find. 2. Liberty--freedom from enforced dictates as to what I have to do, can't do, must pay, must agree to be paid, must say I believe or must say I don't believe...That's hard for anyone to find in a postmodernist bureaucratic tyranny, elected or not. 3. Quiet, serenity, listening to thematic music, spending time in unspoiled Nature, visiting interesting cities, travel, having time to do creative projects. 4. Having a fairly definite daily schedule--even if one trades time slots for doing one thing to do another. The opposite is meaningless, the equivalent of chaos. 5. Automatizing repetitive, unimprovable, meaningless tasks such as sock folding, laundry, low-grade gardening, dusting, vacuuming, bed making and the like--these need to be done regularly, quickly with all equipment right at hand so one doesn't think about them--and saves thought, anticipation, enjoyment, etc. for valuable, desirable, important things instead. Some females tend to get lost in details and give these things importance; so do some males. 6. Spend your time with people who are sane, whose values match yours, who are interesting, positive, know something you don't and/or like doing and reading about what you lie. That's the secret. Apart from taking responsibility for thinking in terms of prioritized inner workings of things instead of mere appearances, and being honest about one's level of knowledge in all things--that's all there is. The rest is permission from authorities.
I think nobody is completely happy and successful, however, the life gives you the opportunities to get it, I think the mayor secret is to be mentally equilibrated, with the capacity to make judgments guessed right, to have the ability to establish the difference between the right and the wrong, then learn to set your priorities and plan the way to achieve each of them in the best rational way. Be open to other ideas and knowledges, try to learn from other mistakes, and then work hard for your goals. Don't let adversities block your way, be persistent and consistent. Focus your best efforts in the achievement, don't waste your time in foolish activities. If you do in this way you shall be a successful person in a short time, then you will have time enough to enjoy the life. It's a matter of discipline and courage.
self belief self analysis perseverence learning to love yourself for who you are accepting you're human and forgiving yourself